choke up: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples

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UK/tʃəʊk ʌp/US/tʃoʊk ʌp/

Informal

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What does “choke up” mean?

To become too emotional to speak properly.

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Definition

Meaning and Definition

To become too emotional to speak properly.

To become overwhelmed with emotion (typically sadness, nostalgia, or gratitude) to the point of having a constricted throat and being unable to speak clearly or at all; to fill or block something (informal, as in "the drain is choked up with leaves").

Dialectal Variation

British vs American Usage

Differences

No significant difference in core meaning. The blocking/obstructing sense ("the pipe is choked up") might be slightly more common in US informal use.

Connotations

Equally strong emotional connotation in both varieties. Can imply positive (touching) or negative (sad) emotion.

Frequency

Slightly more frequent in American media, particularly in sports commentary ("the pitcher choked up on the bat" is a different, technical phrase). The emotional sense is equally common in everyday speech.

Grammar

How to Use “choke up” in a Sentence

[Subject] chokes up (when/while/talking about [Object])[Subject] is/get choked up (about/over [Object])

Vocabulary

Collocations

strong
made me choke upstarted to choke upvoice choking upchoked up with emotion
medium
always chokes upchoke up a bitchoked up talking aboutnearly choked up
weak
choke up insidechoke up completelyfelt himself choke up

Examples

Examples of “choke up” in a Sentence

verb

British English

  • He always chokes up when he talks about his late father.
  • I choked up a little during the film's final scene.

American English

  • She choked up while giving her thank-you speech.
  • The farewell video got me all choked up.

adverb

British English

  • He spoke choked-uply, pausing to collect himself. (Rare/awkward)
  • N/A

American English

  • N/A
  • N/A

adjective

British English

  • He gave a choked-up apology to the fans.
  • There was a choked-up silence in the room.

American English

  • In a choked-up voice, she accepted the award.
  • He sounded pretty choked up on the phone.

Usage

Meaning in Context

Business

Rare. Might be used in a personal anecdote during a farewell speech ("I'm getting a bit choked up talking about his retirement").

Academic

Very rare. Not used in formal academic writing.

Everyday

Common in personal narratives, reactions to films, weddings, funerals, touching moments.

Technical

Not used.

Vocabulary

Synonyms of “choke up”

Strong

be moved to tearsbe overwhelmedbe lost for words (due to emotion)

Neutral

get emotionalget tearybecome overcome

Weak

get a lump in one's throatget misty-eyedfeel a pang

Vocabulary

Antonyms of “choke up”

remain composedkeep a stiff upper lipspeak calmlybe dispassionate

Watch out

Common Mistakes When Using “choke up”

  • Using it to mean 'to vomit' (that's 'throw up').
  • Using it without an emotional cause (e.g., "I choked up because of the smoke" is incorrect for the main meaning).
  • Confusing it with 'choke' alone, which means to struggle to breathe.

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

No. 'Choke up' refers specifically to the tightening in the throat and difficulty speaking that often happens just before one cries. You can choke up without actually shedding tears.

Yes. It is commonly used for overwhelming positive emotions like pride, gratitude, or joy, especially during moments like weddings, award ceremonies, or touching surprises.

'Choke' primarily means to have severe difficulty breathing because something is blocking your airway. 'Choke up' is an emotional/physical reaction focused on the throat constricting, making speech difficult, with no implication of danger.

Yes, the past participle 'choked up' is frequently used adjectivally (e.g., "a choked-up voice," "I felt choked up").

To become too emotional to speak properly.

Choke up is usually informal in register.

Choke up: in British English it is pronounced /tʃəʊk ʌp/, and in American English it is pronounced /tʃoʊk ʌp/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.

Phrases

Idioms & Phrases

  • Choke up is itself an idiom. Related: "get a lump in one's throat."

Learning

Memory Aids

Mnemonic

Imagine your emotions are like water in a pipe. When you CHOKE UP, the valve (your throat) gets blocked by emotion, and the words can't get out.

Conceptual Metaphor

EMOTION IS A PHYSICAL OBSTRUCTION / THE THROAT IS A CONDUIT FOR SPEECH.

Practice

Quiz

Fill in the gap
He was so during the eulogy that he had to stop several times.
Multiple Choice

In which situation would someone most likely 'choke up'?