come by: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples

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UK/ˈkʌm baɪ/US/ˈkʌm ˌbaɪ/

Informal, conversational. Both meanings are common in spoken English.

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What does “come by” mean?

To acquire or obtain something, often with a sense of chance or difficulty.

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Pronunciation

Definition

Meaning and Definition

To acquire or obtain something, often with a sense of chance or difficulty.

To visit a place or person casually or briefly.

Dialectal Variation

British vs American Usage

Differences

No significant difference in meaning. Both meanings are used in both varieties.

Connotations

In the 'obtain' sense, there is often an implication that the acquisition was not easy. In the 'visit' sense, it implies an informal, unplanned, or brief visit.

Frequency

The 'obtain' sense may be slightly more common in American English in contexts like 'How did you come by that information?' The 'visit' sense is equally common.

Grammar

How to Use “come by” in a Sentence

come by [OBJECT (thing)]come by [PLACE]

Vocabulary

Collocations

strong
come by informationcome by moneycome by a jobcome by the housecome by the office
medium
come by honestlycome by rarelycome by chancecome by tomorrow
weak
come by traincome by buscome by later

Examples

Examples of “come by” in a Sentence

verb

British English

  • Good friends are hard to come by.
  • Do come by for a cuppa sometime.
  • He came by his fortune through hard work.

American English

  • Tickets for the show are tough to come by.
  • Why don't you come by after the game?
  • She came by her skills honestly.

adverb

British English

  • N/A

American English

  • N/A

adjective

British English

  • N/A

American English

  • N/A

Usage

Meaning in Context

Business

'We need to come by the necessary funding for the project.'

Academic

'Such primary sources are difficult to come by.'

Everyday

'I'll come by your place after work.'

Technical

Rare in highly technical contexts.

Vocabulary

Synonyms of “come by”

Neutral

obtainget hold ofacquirestop bydrop by

Vocabulary

Antonyms of “come by”

losegive awaymiss out onavoidstay away

Watch out

Common Mistakes When Using “come by”

  • Using 'come by' to mean 'pass by' without the intent of obtaining or visiting.
  • Incorrect: 'I saw him come by the shop.' (Ambiguous). Correct: 'I saw him come by the shop to say hello.'

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

'Come by' often implies the process of acquisition was not straightforward or was fortuitous, whereas 'get' is more general and neutral.

The 'obtain' sense can be used in formal writing (e.g., 'data that is hard to come by'). The 'visit' sense is predominantly informal.

No, it is an inseparable phrasal verb. You cannot say 'come it by'.

Context is key. If the object is a thing (information, money, a job), it means 'obtain'. If the object is a place or person (the house, me, the office), it means 'visit'.

To acquire or obtain something, often with a sense of chance or difficulty.

Come by: in British English it is pronounced /ˈkʌm baɪ/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˈkʌm ˌbaɪ/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.

Phrases

Idioms & Phrases

  • hard to come by
  • come by it honestly

Learning

Memory Aids

Mnemonic

Imagine a rare book COMING BY post to you (acquiring it). Or picture a friend COMING BY your house on their way somewhere (visiting).

Conceptual Metaphor

POSSESSION IS PHYSICAL PROXIMITY (to 'come by' something is to have it arrive near you).

Practice

Quiz

Fill in the gap
Internships at that prestigious firm are very difficult to .
Multiple Choice

In the sentence 'I'll come by around eight,' what does 'come by' mean?