gigolo: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples

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UK/ˈʒɪɡ.ə.ləʊ/US/ˈdʒɪɡ.ə.loʊ/

Informal, often pejorative

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What does “gigolo” mean?

A man who is paid by a woman, often older or wealthier, to be her escort, lover, or companion.

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Definition

Meaning and Definition

A man who is paid by a woman, often older or wealthier, to be her escort, lover, or companion.

More broadly, a man who is financially supported by a romantic partner, implying a transactional relationship where companionship or affection is exchanged for money or gifts. Can sometimes be used pejoratively to describe a man perceived as living off a woman's wealth.

Dialectal Variation

British vs American Usage

Differences

No significant difference in definition or primary usage. Slight variation in cultural reference points due to media.

Connotations

Identical strong connotations of transaction, exploitation, and social unacceptability in both varieties.

Frequency

Comparably low frequency in both, primarily used in specific contexts (e.g., gossip, tabloid media, discussions of relationships).

Grammar

How to Use “gigolo” in a Sentence

[Subject: Man] + gigolo + [to/for woman]gigolo + of + [woman's name]verb + as + a gigolo

Vocabulary

Collocations

strong
kept manwealthy older womanhiredpaidescort
medium
live as awork as abecame herprofessionalluxury apartment
weak
younghandsomecharmingrelationshipaccused of being a

Examples

Examples of “gigolo” in a Sentence

verb

British English

  • He was accused of gigoloing his way through the retirement homes of the South of France.
  • She suspected he was only gigoloing for her money.

American English

  • The tabloids claimed he'd been gigoloing for wealthy socialites for years.
  • He's not looking for love; he's just gigoloing.

adverb

British English

  • (Not standard; no adverbial form in use.)

American English

  • (Not standard; no adverbial form in use.)

adjective

British English

  • She grew tired of his gigolo lifestyle and constant demands for cash.
  • He had a certain gigolo charm that appealed to a specific clientele.

Usage

Meaning in Context

Business

Not used.

Academic

Rare, possibly in sociological or gender studies contexts discussing transactional relationships.

Everyday

Used in gossip, tabloid headlines, or critical descriptions of certain relationships.

Technical

Not a technical term.

Vocabulary

Synonyms of “gigolo”

Strong

kept mantoy boy (emphasises age difference)gold-digger (gender-neutral, but context-specific)

Neutral

paid companionmale escort

Vocabulary

Antonyms of “gigolo”

providerbreadwinnersugar daddy (gender-reversed dynamic)

Watch out

Common Mistakes When Using “gigolo”

  • Using it to refer to a male prostitute who services men (incorrect; that is a different category).
  • Using it in a positive or admiring way.
  • Misspelling as 'gigalo'.

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

No, 'gigolo' is exclusively male. The approximate female equivalent is 'mistress' (though context differs) or phrases like 'gold-digger' (which can be applied to any gender but is not a direct parallel).

They are related but not identical. A 'male escort' is a broader, more neutral professional term for a paid companion for social events, which may or may not involve romantic or sexual services. 'Gigolo' specifically implies an ongoing, romantic/sexual relationship with financial support and carries a stronger negative judgement.

It is almost always pejorative and can be highly offensive if used to label someone directly. It implies exploitation, laziness, and a lack of genuine affection. It should be used with caution, typically only in descriptive or critical contexts.

It entered English in the 1920s from French, which derived it from the archaic French verb 'gigoter' (to dance, jig). This etymology hints at the role of a male dancing partner hired by women, which evolved into its modern meaning.

A man who is paid by a woman, often older or wealthier, to be her escort, lover, or companion.

Gigolo is usually informal, often pejorative in register.

Gigolo: in British English it is pronounced /ˈʒɪɡ.ə.ləʊ/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˈdʒɪɡ.ə.loʊ/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.

Phrases

Idioms & Phrases

  • [He's/She's] buying him affection. (Implies gigolo-like relationship)
  • A meal ticket. (Derogatory term for a person one uses for financial support)

Learning

Memory Aids

Mnemonic

Think of 'gig' (a job) + 'olo' (sounds like 'solo' but for hire). A 'gig-olo' is a man hired for the 'gig' of being a companion.

Conceptual Metaphor

ROMANCE IS A COMMERCIAL TRANSACTION / A MAN IS A COMMODITY.

Practice

Quiz

Fill in the gap
After he lost his job, he was humorously accused by his friends of becoming a for his successful girlfriend.
Multiple Choice

What is the PRIMARY connotation of the word 'gigolo'?