gigolo: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples
C2Informal, often pejorative
Quick answer
What does “gigolo” mean?
A man who is paid by a woman, often older or wealthier, to be her escort, lover, or companion.
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Pronunciation
Definition
Meaning and Definition
A man who is paid by a woman, often older or wealthier, to be her escort, lover, or companion.
More broadly, a man who is financially supported by a romantic partner, implying a transactional relationship where companionship or affection is exchanged for money or gifts. Can sometimes be used pejoratively to describe a man perceived as living off a woman's wealth.
Dialectal Variation
British vs American Usage
Differences
No significant difference in definition or primary usage. Slight variation in cultural reference points due to media.
Connotations
Identical strong connotations of transaction, exploitation, and social unacceptability in both varieties.
Frequency
Comparably low frequency in both, primarily used in specific contexts (e.g., gossip, tabloid media, discussions of relationships).
Grammar
How to Use “gigolo” in a Sentence
[Subject: Man] + gigolo + [to/for woman]gigolo + of + [woman's name]verb + as + a gigoloVocabulary
Collocations
Examples
Examples of “gigolo” in a Sentence
verb
British English
- He was accused of gigoloing his way through the retirement homes of the South of France.
- She suspected he was only gigoloing for her money.
American English
- The tabloids claimed he'd been gigoloing for wealthy socialites for years.
- He's not looking for love; he's just gigoloing.
adverb
British English
- (Not standard; no adverbial form in use.)
American English
- (Not standard; no adverbial form in use.)
adjective
British English
- She grew tired of his gigolo lifestyle and constant demands for cash.
- He had a certain gigolo charm that appealed to a specific clientele.
Usage
Meaning in Context
Business
Not used.
Academic
Rare, possibly in sociological or gender studies contexts discussing transactional relationships.
Everyday
Used in gossip, tabloid headlines, or critical descriptions of certain relationships.
Technical
Not a technical term.
Vocabulary
Synonyms of “gigolo”
Vocabulary
Antonyms of “gigolo”
Watch out
Common Mistakes When Using “gigolo”
- Using it to refer to a male prostitute who services men (incorrect; that is a different category).
- Using it in a positive or admiring way.
- Misspelling as 'gigalo'.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
No, 'gigolo' is exclusively male. The approximate female equivalent is 'mistress' (though context differs) or phrases like 'gold-digger' (which can be applied to any gender but is not a direct parallel).
They are related but not identical. A 'male escort' is a broader, more neutral professional term for a paid companion for social events, which may or may not involve romantic or sexual services. 'Gigolo' specifically implies an ongoing, romantic/sexual relationship with financial support and carries a stronger negative judgement.
It is almost always pejorative and can be highly offensive if used to label someone directly. It implies exploitation, laziness, and a lack of genuine affection. It should be used with caution, typically only in descriptive or critical contexts.
It entered English in the 1920s from French, which derived it from the archaic French verb 'gigoter' (to dance, jig). This etymology hints at the role of a male dancing partner hired by women, which evolved into its modern meaning.
A man who is paid by a woman, often older or wealthier, to be her escort, lover, or companion.
Gigolo is usually informal, often pejorative in register.
Gigolo: in British English it is pronounced /ˈʒɪɡ.ə.ləʊ/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˈdʒɪɡ.ə.loʊ/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.
Phrases
Idioms & Phrases
- “[He's/She's] buying him affection. (Implies gigolo-like relationship)”
- “A meal ticket. (Derogatory term for a person one uses for financial support)”
Learning
Memory Aids
Mnemonic
Think of 'gig' (a job) + 'olo' (sounds like 'solo' but for hire). A 'gig-olo' is a man hired for the 'gig' of being a companion.
Conceptual Metaphor
ROMANCE IS A COMMERCIAL TRANSACTION / A MAN IS A COMMODITY.
Practice
Quiz
What is the PRIMARY connotation of the word 'gigolo'?