looking-glass self: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples

Low. This is a specialized term.
UK/ˌlʊkɪŋ ɡlɑːs ˈself/US/ˌlʊkɪŋ ɡlæs ˈself/

Academic / Technical

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What does “looking-glass self” mean?

The concept that a person's self grows out of society's interpersonal interactions and the perceptions of others.

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Definition

Meaning and Definition

The concept that a person's self grows out of society's interpersonal interactions and the perceptions of others.

The process by which individuals imagine how they appear to others (the imagination of our appearance to the other person), imagine the judgment of that appearance (the imagination of their judgment of that appearance), and develop their self through the judgments of others.

Dialectal Variation

British vs American Usage

Differences

No lexical differences. The term is used identically in both varieties within academic contexts.

Connotations

Purely academic/sociological. No additional cultural connotations beyond its technical definition.

Frequency

Equally rare in both varieties, confined to sociology, social psychology, and related humanities/social science disciplines.

Grammar

How to Use “looking-glass self” in a Sentence

[Subject] develops a sense of self via the looking-glass self.The looking-glass self involves [three-step process].

Vocabulary

Collocations

strong
Cooley's looking-glass selfthe concept of the looking-glass selfthe looking-glass self theory
medium
develop through the looking-glass selfthe process of the looking-glass self
weak
a classic example of the looking-glass selfexplain using the looking-glass self

Usage

Meaning in Context

Business

Rare. Might appear in HR or organisational behaviour contexts discussing feedback and identity at work.

Academic

Primary context. Found in sociology, social psychology, communication studies, and identity theory textbooks and papers.

Everyday

Extremely rare. Would be used knowingly to reference the specific theory.

Technical

Core context. A standard term in sociological and psychological theory.

Vocabulary

Synonyms of “looking-glass self”

Neutral

reflected appraisalsocial self

Weak

social mirroringexternal perception

Vocabulary

Antonyms of “looking-glass self”

innate selfessentialist selfpre-social identity

Watch out

Common Mistakes When Using “looking-glass self”

  • Using it as an adjective (e.g., 'looking-glass self theory' is correct, 'looking-glass-self theory' with a hyphen is less standard).
  • Confusing it with simply 'self-reflection' (which is introspective).
  • Writing as 'looking glass self' without hyphens (the standard form is hyphenated).

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

No. Self-esteem is an evaluative judgment of one's own worth. The looking-glass self is the broader process of *forming* a self-concept based on perceived social judgments, which can then influence self-esteem.

American sociologist Charles Horton Cooley in his 1902 work 'Human Nature and the Social Order'.

1. We imagine how we appear to others. 2. We imagine their judgment of that appearance. 3. We develop our self-feeling (e.g., pride or shame) based on that imagined judgment.

Yes, a key aspect of the theory is that it is based on our *perception* of others' views, which may be misperceived or distorted.

The concept that a person's self grows out of society's interpersonal interactions and the perceptions of others.

Looking-glass self is usually academic / technical in register.

Looking-glass self: in British English it is pronounced /ˌlʊkɪŋ ɡlɑːs ˈself/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˌlʊkɪŋ ɡlæs ˈself/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.

Learning

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Mnemonic

Imagine looking into a mirror (looking-glass) but the reflection is not your face, it's the collective opinion of everyone you know – that reflection is your 'self'.

Conceptual Metaphor

THE MIND IS A MIRROR (REFLECTING SOCIAL APPRAISALS). IDENTITY IS A REFLECTION.

Practice

Quiz

Fill in the gap
Cooley's concept of the suggests we see ourselves through the imagined reactions of others.
Multiple Choice

The 'looking-glass self' is primarily concerned with: