marriage broker: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples

C2 / Low-Frequency
UK/ˈmær.ɪdʒ ˌbrəʊ.kər/US/ˈmer.ɪdʒ ˌbroʊ.kɚ/

Formal / Technical

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What does “marriage broker” mean?

A person or company whose business is to arrange marriages, traditionally by finding suitable partners and negotiating terms between families.

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Definition

Meaning and Definition

A person or company whose business is to arrange marriages, traditionally by finding suitable partners and negotiating terms between families.

A professional matchmaker, often operating within specific cultural or religious communities, who facilitates introductions and negotiations with the explicit goal of marriage. In modern contexts, the term can be used somewhat metaphorically for services that facilitate serious, marriage-oriented relationships.

Dialectal Variation

British vs American Usage

Differences

No significant lexical difference. The term is used in both varieties, often in contexts discussing historical practices, specific ethnic communities (e.g., Orthodox Jewish shadchan, South Asian rishta aunty), or anthropological studies.

Connotations

Both share connotations of formal arrangement, often traditional or community-specific. In both, it may sound slightly archaic or culturally niche outside of those specific contexts.

Frequency

Equally low-frequency in both varieties. More likely encountered in historical fiction, anthropological texts, or news articles about specific cultural practices than in everyday conversation.

Grammar

How to Use “marriage broker” in a Sentence

[Subject] hired/consulted a marriage broker.[Subject] acted as a marriage broker for [two families/parties].The marriage broker introduced [Object] to [Object].

Vocabulary

Collocations

strong
professional marriage brokertraditional marriage brokerhire a marriage brokerservices of a marriage broker
medium
act as a marriage brokerthrough a marriage brokerlocal marriage brokerarranged by a marriage broker
weak
successful marriage brokerfamous marriage brokercontact a marriage brokermarriage broker agency

Examples

Examples of “marriage broker” in a Sentence

verb

British English

  • They decided to marriage-broker a union between the two families. (rare, non-standard)

American English

  • He tried to marriage-broker a deal between the rival firms. (metaphorical, rare)

adverb

British English

  • N/A. No standard adverbial form.

American English

  • N/A. No standard adverbial form.

adjective

British English

  • The marriage-broker service was well-regarded in the community. (hyphenated attributive)

American English

  • She had a marriage broker business. (noun adjunct)

Usage

Meaning in Context

Business

Rare, unless referring to the business model of a specific matchmaking agency. "The company operates as a high-end marriage broker for wealthy clients."

Academic

Used in anthropology, sociology, and history to describe a formal social role. "The paper examines the economic role of the marriage broker in 19th-century urban communities."

Everyday

Very rare in casual conversation. If used, it's likely in storytelling or when describing a specific cultural practice known to the speakers.

Technical

Precise term in ethnography and social history for a professional matchmaking role.

Vocabulary

Synonyms of “marriage broker”

Strong

shadchan (in Jewish contexts)go-between (in marital contexts)

Neutral

matchmakermatrimonial agent

Weak

relationship consultantintroduction service (if marriage-focused)

Vocabulary

Antonyms of “marriage broker”

divorce lawyerseparatorparting agent

Watch out

Common Mistakes When Using “marriage broker”

  • Using 'marriage broker' to refer to a casual dating app or website (too broad). Confusing with 'wedding planner' (who organizes the ceremony, not the match).

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

No. A marriage broker's explicit goal is facilitating a marriage, often involving families. A dating coach focuses on improving social skills for dating in general, not necessarily with a marital outcome.

It is a low-frequency, formal term. While it may sound old-fashioned in general Western contexts, it remains the accurate technical term for the professional role in anthropology and is actively used within specific cultural or religious groups that practice arranged marriages.

A matchmaker is a broader, often more informal term. A marriage broker implies a more formal, professional, sometimes commercial service with a clear focus on the contractual or negotiated aspects leading directly to marriage.

Typically, no. Websites are 'matchmaking services' or 'matrimonial sites'. 'Marriage broker' traditionally refers to a person or a service with significant personal intermediary involvement. Using it for an algorithm-based platform is a metaphorical stretch.

A person or company whose business is to arrange marriages, traditionally by finding suitable partners and negotiating terms between families.

Marriage broker is usually formal / technical in register.

Marriage broker: in British English it is pronounced /ˈmær.ɪdʒ ˌbrəʊ.kər/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˈmer.ɪdʒ ˌbroʊ.kɚ/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.

Phrases

Idioms & Phrases

  • play the marriage broker (to act as an intermediary in trying to unite two people or groups)

Learning

Memory Aids

Mnemonic

Think of a stock BROKER who deals in stocks and shares. A MARRIAGE BROKER 'deals' in marriages, bringing together parties for a union.

Conceptual Metaphor

MARRIAGE IS A BUSINESS TRANSACTION (where the broker is the intermediary). / FINDING A PARTNER IS A MARKET ACTIVITY.

Practice

Quiz

Fill in the gap
In some cultures, families still prefer to use a to arrange a suitable match for their children.
Multiple Choice

Which of the following is the closest professional role to a 'marriage broker'?