speed dating: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples

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UK/ˌspiːd ˈdeɪtɪŋ/US/ˌspid ˈdeɪdɪŋ/

Informal to neutral; common in lifestyle, social, and business contexts.

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What does “speed dating” mean?

An organized social event where individuals meet and have brief, timed conversations with multiple potential romantic partners.

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Definition

Meaning and Definition

An organized social event where individuals meet and have brief, timed conversations with multiple potential romantic partners.

Any process or event involving rapid, successive meetings or assessments, often used metaphorically in business (e.g., speed networking), academia, or pitching sessions.

Dialectal Variation

British vs American Usage

Differences

Both varieties use the term identically. The concept is equally established in both cultures.

Connotations

Slightly more associated with urban, professional environments. Can carry a lighthearted or pragmatic connotation.

Frequency

Equal frequency in both varieties.

Grammar

How to Use “speed dating” in a Sentence

participate in speed datinggo to speed dating

Vocabulary

Collocations

strong
attend speed datingorganize speed datinga speed dating eventspeed dating session
medium
try speed datinghost a speed dating nightsign up for speed dating
weak
modern speed datingsuccessful speed datinglocal speed dating

Examples

Examples of “speed dating” in a Sentence

verb

British English

  • The company speed-dates candidates in a first-round assessment centre.

American English

  • Startups will speed-date potential investors at the pitch event.

adjective

British English

  • They used a speed-dating format for the conference workshops.

American English

  • The speed-dating model was applied to the job fair.

Usage

Meaning in Context

Business

Used for 'speed networking' events where professionals make quick contacts.

Academic

Used to describe formats for brief student presentations or peer feedback sessions.

Everyday

Refers to the common social activity for meeting potential partners.

Technical

Not typically used in highly technical fields.

Vocabulary

Synonyms of “speed dating”

Strong

rapid dating

Neutral

timed datingquick-meet event

Weak

fast-track datingexpress dating

Vocabulary

Antonyms of “speed dating”

traditional courtshiplong-term datingarranged marriage

Watch out

Common Mistakes When Using “speed dating”

  • Using as a verb (*'We speed-dated yesterday' is informal/rare). Treating it as an uncountable noun (*'a speed dating').

FAQ

Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, while it has a lighthearted image, it is a recognized and structured social activity taken seriously by many participants and organizers to initiate romantic connections.

Typically between 3 to 8 minutes, after which a signal (like a bell or buzzer) indicates it's time to move to the next person.

Yes, the format is widely applied in business (speed networking), academia, and fundraising, where the core idea of rapid, sequential brief meetings is retained.

It originates from a concept devised by Rabbi Yaacov Deyo in 1999 in Los Angeles, intended to help Jewish singles meet and marry efficiently.

An organized social event where individuals meet and have brief, timed conversations with multiple potential romantic partners.

Speed dating is usually informal to neutral; common in lifestyle, social, and business contexts. in register.

Speed dating: in British English it is pronounced /ˌspiːd ˈdeɪtɪŋ/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˌspid ˈdeɪdɪŋ/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.

Phrases

Idioms & Phrases

  • It's like speed dating for jobs.
  • The conference had a speed-dating format for researchers.

Learning

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Mnemonic

Think of 'speed' (fast) + 'dating' (romantic meetings) = fast romantic meetings.

Conceptual Metaphor

ROMANTIC PURSUIT IS A TIMED EFFICIENCY EXERCISE / FINDING A PARTNER IS A PROCESS OF RAPID SAMPLING.

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In which context might 'speed dating' be used metaphorically?

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