throw over: meaning, definition, pronunciation and examples
C1Informal to Neutral
Quick answer
What does “throw over” mean?
To abruptly end a romantic or professional relationship.
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Pronunciation
Definition
Meaning and Definition
To abruptly end a romantic or professional relationship; to abandon or reject someone.
To discard or reject something (e.g., a plan, system, or set of principles) in favour of a new alternative. In rare nautical use, to tip or overturn.
Dialectal Variation
British vs American Usage
Differences
Slightly more common in British English. American English might favour 'dump' or 'break up with' in romantic contexts.
Connotations
Both varieties share the core meaning. In American English, it can sound slightly archaic or literary in non-romantic contexts.
Frequency
Low-frequency phrasal verb in both, but understood. More likely found in narrative or descriptive contexts than casual conversation.
Grammar
How to Use “throw over” in a Sentence
[Subject] threw [Object] over for [New Person/Thing][Subject] threw [Object] over.Vocabulary
Collocations
Examples
Examples of “throw over” in a Sentence
verb
British English
- He was devastated when she threw him over for his best mate.
- The MP threw over his party and joined the opposition.
American English
- She threw him over after the scandal, and he never recovered.
- The startup threw over its original business model for something more radical.
adverb
British English
- Not applicable as an adverb.
American English
- Not applicable as an adverb.
adjective
British English
- She's a thrown-over lover seeking revenge. (rare, participial adjective)
American English
- His thrown-over plans left him directionless. (rare, participial adjective)
Usage
Meaning in Context
Business
Rare. Could be used metaphorically: 'The company threw over its traditional suppliers for a cheaper alternative.'
Academic
Very rare in formal writing. Might appear in historical/social texts about alliances.
Everyday
Used for relationship talk: 'She threw him over after she found out.'
Technical
Not applicable.
Watch out
Common Mistakes When Using “throw over”
- Using it with a physical object: ❌'He threw over the ball.' (Correct: threw *the ball over* the fence)
- Confusing with 'throw overboard' (which is nautical).
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Rarely and archaically (e.g., 'The cart was thrown over in the storm'). In modern use, 'overturn' or 'tip over' is preferred.
It is neutral to informal. It's common in speech and narrative but not in very formal legal or academic documents.
'Throw over' implies a more abrupt, often callous or surprising rejection, sometimes for a specific alternative. 'Break up with' is more general and neutral.
Yes, very commonly (e.g., 'He was thrown over', 'I felt thrown over'). This emphasises the experience of the rejected person.
To abruptly end a romantic or professional relationship.
Throw over: in British English it is pronounced /ˌθrəʊ ˈəʊvə/, and in American English it is pronounced /ˌθroʊ ˈoʊvər/. Tap the audio buttons above to hear it.
Phrases
Idioms & Phrases
- “Throw over the traces (to rebel, break free from control)”
Learning
Memory Aids
Mnemonic
Imagine literally THROWING a portrait of your partner OVER your shoulder into the bin. You're discarding the relationship.
Conceptual Metaphor
RELATIONSHIPS/COMMITMENTS ARE OBJECTS THAT CAN BE DISCARDED.
Practice
Quiz
Which situation best illustrates the meaning of 'throw over'?